So, I had a baby almost 1 year ago. There are many learning curves. Still are. The biggest is well...sleep. My child does not sleep. In fact he is supposed to be napping right now but is instead jumping up and down in his crib yelling
dadadadada. Now I must admit this is partially my fault. He
acquired croup at 4 months and had it twice within the same month. Me, loving him fiercely, decided to keep a mindful watch on him while he slept... in our bed! To insure he kept breathing through the night of course. Needless to say, the habit is dying hard, and sleep is still a struggle.
This however, is not the blog I am looking to post. Merely just an example of one struggle that many Mother's go through. Another is...getting back into shape. Being a Yoga and Core Fusion Instructor I have been in the position where setting the bar (no pun intended) is a job requirement. So...how did I do it? Where did I find the time? Motivation? It is actually quite simple. You just have to make it a priority. Easier said then done? Maybe. Now we all go through unique experiences through pregnancy, labor, and then being a new mom. It effects all of us differently. Some women are stay at homes while others resume back to a 9-5 as early as six weeks to three months after giving birth. It just depends on where your focus is. My point is, if you want to get back into shape after having a baby, you can. Determination has to be there. Being a new mother has it's challenges and it's rewards. You love having this new perfect little human bean ( yes bean) in your life for you to love, nurture, and to help grow. However, the moments of "you" time dwindle. When they do present themselves there is a time frame on what you can or cannot accomplish. That is where the priorities come in.
During the first few months after my son was born, before the 6 week prenatal check up. I would rest when the baby rested. Upon my 6 week approach though, I was antsy to get my pre-pregnancy body back and just to restore the physical confidence I once had from being in shape. So during nap time I began with small 20 min work outs at home. I started with low impact strength training. I followed the Core Fusion Body Sculpt DVD. It was extremely difficult and I definitely took breaks. After all, you essentially have no access to your abdominal wall for 9 +months so locating it, takes work, time, and patience. Upon the end of the workout. I was exhausted but felt renewed somehow. Ready to continue on my fitness journey. Not that very same day, but in days to come. So everyday I would continue my work. Integrating core work with low impact strength training. Slowly my endurance paved the way to a slow jog on the weekends. The more consistent I became with my workouts the faster the weight peeled off and the more motivated I became. Also, it helped with the whole sleep deprived thing. It was so easy to just take a nap when the baby did. However, I found myself dragging more after the naps then if I had just worked out. The endorphins always renewed my energy, lifted my spirit, and restored me through the day. Remember the feeling you had right after giving birth? Sure you were exhausted, maybe in pain, and weak. There's also a sense of elation that may have occurred also though. Pushing a watermelon out of a keyhole takes work! (maybe a bad analogy) There is physical endurance that must happen in order to give birth. Going through that experience changes you forever and a certain sense of physical accomplishment comes along with it. Even with a c-section. Your body has endured (maybe even more). So why should it be any different in re-setting itself?
Getting back into shape and maintaining your health should be just as much a priority as having the baby.